Stop Giving the Government an Interest-Free Loan: The Complete Guide to Getting Your Withholding Right

If you're getting a significant tax refund every year based on wage withholding, you're doing it wrong. Not because getting money back feels bad — but because you've been lending the IRS thousands of dollars interest-free for months while you could have been investing it, paying down debt, or just having access to your own money.

Jim Carroll - Senior Tax Advisor at Fifteenth

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If you're getting a significant tax refund every year based on wage withholding, you're doing it wrong. Not because getting money back feels bad — but because you've been lending the IRS thousands of dollars interest-free for months while you could have been investing it, paying down debt, or just having access to your own money.

On the flip side, if you owe large balances every April based on W-2 wages and aren’t meeting safe-harbor thresholds, you're also doing it wrong. You're setting yourself up for an unpleasant surprise and potential underpayment penalties.

The goal is simple: Get your withholding as close to breakeven as possible. Here's exactly how to do it.

If you’re short on time, don’t worry - there’s a TL;DR at the end.

Understanding the W-4

The IRS redesigned the W-4 in 2020 to make it more accurate. It's different from the old "allowances" system, but it's actually better once you understand it.

The five steps of the 2025/2026 W-4:

Step 1: Personal Information

  • Name, address, SSN
  • Filing status (Single, Married Filing Jointly, Married Filing Separately, Head of Household)
  • This is mandatory

Step 2: Multiple Jobs or Spouse Works

  • Use this if you have more than one job OR you're married filing jointly and you both work
  • Three options: (a) use the IRS online calculator, (b) use the Multiple Jobs Worksheet, or (c) check the box if you only have two jobs
  • Skip this if you're single with one job only

Step 3: Claim Dependents

  • The relevant income thresholds here are $200,000 (single) or $400,000 (married filing jointly). Above the thresholds, this step may still be relevant but benefits will be reduced/eliminated. The calculator handles this automatically.
  • $2,000 per qualifying child under 17
  • $500 per other dependent
  • Multiply number of dependents by the appropriate amount

Step 4: Other Adjustments (Optional)

  • 4(a): Other income not from jobs (interest, dividends, retirement)
  • 4(b): Deductions beyond standard deduction
  • 4(c): Extra withholding per paycheck

Step 5: Sign and date

What happened to allowances?

They're gone. The new system is more accurate because it asks for actual dollar amounts instead of allowances that were confusing and often led to under-withholding.

The Step-by-Step Process to Get It Right

Step 1: Gather Your Information

You need:

Last year's tax return

  • Shows what you actually owed
  • Reveals patterns (itemized deductions, credits, other income)

Current year pay stubs (all jobs)

  • Year-to-date gross income
  • Year-to-date federal tax withheld
  • Year-to-date state tax withheld
  • Pay frequency (weekly, bi-weekly, semi-monthly, monthly)

Spouse's information if married

  • Their income and withholding
  • Their W-4 setup

Expected changes this year

  • New baby
  • Bought a house
  • Started a side gig
  • Bonus or RSU vesting
  • College tuition payments

Step 2: Use the IRS Tax Withholding Estimator

Don't guess. Use the IRS tool.

Why this tool is actually useful:

It accounts for:

  • Multiple jobs and varying pay schedules
  • Income already earned and tax already withheld this year
  • Tax credits and deductions
  • Other income sources
  • The tax brackets and standard deduction for the current year

What you'll need to input:

  1. Filing status
  2. Number of dependents and their ages
  3. Income and withholding for each job (both spouses)
  4. Other income (self-employment, interest, dividends, capital gains)
  5. Adjustments to income (IRA contributions, student loan interest, HSA)
  6. Deductions (whether you'll itemize)
  7. Tax credits you expect (child tax credit, education credits, etc.)

The output:

The tool will tell you:

  • Estimated total tax for the year
  • How much has already been withheld
  • Whether you're on track for a refund or balance due
  • Exactly what to enter on your W-4 forms

Step 3: Fill Out Your W-4 Based on the Calculator Results

The IRS calculator will generate specific instructions for your W-4.

Example output:

"For your main job at ABC Company:

  • Step 1: Married Filing Jointly
  • Step 2: Check the box (because spouse works)
  • Step 3: Enter $4,000 (two children under 17)
  • Step 4(c): Enter $50 extra withholding per paycheck

For your spouse's job at XYZ Corporation:

  • Step 1: Married Filing Jointly
  • Step 2: Check the box
  • Step 3: Leave blank (already claimed on your W-4)
  • Step 4: Leave blank"

Follow these instructions exactly.

Step 4: Optimize for Perfect Breakeven

The calculator aims for a small refund (typically $500-1,000) as a buffer. If you want true breakeven, you can adjust.

How to fine-tune:

If the calculator says you'll get a $600 refund and you want breakeven:

$600 ÷ number of remaining paychecks = amount to reduce per paycheck

Example:

  • $600 expected refund
  • 20 paychecks remaining this year
  • $600 ÷ 20 = $30

On your W-4, Step 4(c), reduce the extra withholding by $30 per paycheck (or if you weren't going to have extra withholding, enter an amount on 4(b) to reduce withholding).

The practical approach:

Most people should aim for a $200-500 refund as a buffer because:

  • Unexpected income happens (bonuses, side gig income)
  • Deductions might be less than expected
  • Better to slightly overpay than owe + penalties

If you want true breakeven or a small balance due:

Just reduce the withholding slightly from what the calculator suggests.

Common Complications

Married Couples Both Working

The complication:

If you both claim the standard deduction and dependents, you'll be under-withheld.

Why it happens:

Each person's W-4 assumes they get the full $31,500 (inflation-adjusted) standard deduction (married filing jointly, 2025). But you only get one standard deduction per couple, not two.

The correct approach:

Option 1: One person claims everything

  • Higher earner: Claims dependents in Step 3, files as Married Filing Jointly
  • Lower earner: Just marks Married Filing Jointly in Step 1, leaves Steps 2-4 blank

Option 2: Both use Step 2 properly

  • Both check the box in Step 2(c)
  • Split dependents between W-4s (or higher earner claims all)
  • Use the online calculator for exact amounts

Option 3: Withhold at higher "Single" rate

  • Both file W-4 using "Married Filing Separately" checkbox
    • Note that this isn’t officially changing your filing status - it’s only a withholding method change
  • This withholds at higher single rates
  • Often results in over-withholding but safer if one spouse has variable income

Real-world example:

Sarah makes $90,000, John makes $65,000. They have two kids under 17.

Wrong way:

  • Sarah's W-4: Married, two dependents ($4,000 in Step 3)
  • John's W-4: Married, two dependents ($4,000 in Step 3)
  • Result: Massive under-withholding, owe $5,000+ in April.

Right way:

  • Sarah's W-4: Married, check box in Step 2, two dependents in Step 3
  • John's W-4: Married, check box in Step 2, leave Step 3 blank
  • Result: Accurate withholding.

Side Gig or Self-Employment Income

The issue:
Your employer doesn't know about your side income, so nothing is being withheld for it.

How to adjust your W-4:

Step 4(a): Enter anticipated self-employment income in "Other income"

This will increase your withholding - but note that the calculator doesn’t perfectly replicate the separate self-employment tax, so estimated payments may still be required.

Alternative: Make quarterly estimated tax payments instead of adjusting W-4.

Which is better?

Adjusting W-4 is simpler and automatic, but quarterly estimated payments give you more control and you can pay exactly when income is earned.

Itemized Deductions

If you itemize instead of taking the standard deduction, your taxable income is lower, so you need less withholding.

Common itemized deductions:

  • Mortgage interest: $15,000
  • Property taxes: $10,000 
  • Charitable contributions: $8,000
  • Total itemized: $33,000

Standard deduction for married filing jointly (2025): $31,500

Extra benefit from itemizing: $33,000 - $31,500 = $1,500

How to adjust W-4:

Step 4(b): Enter $1,500

This reduces your taxable income on the W-4 by $1,500, which reduces withholding over the year.

Caution: Only do this if you're confident you'll itemize. If you're borderline, just use the standard deduction assumption.

Changed Jobs Mid-Year

The problem:

Your new employer doesn't know what you earned at your old job.

Example:

Old job: $50,000 (worked Jan-June) New job: $60,000 annual salary (working July-Dec, so $30,000 earned) Total income: $80,000

Your new employer's withholding system assumes you'll make $60,000 for the full year. But you'll actually make $80,000. Result: Under-withholding.

The solution:

Use the IRS calculator with:

  • Income and withholding from old job (year-to-date on final pay stub)
  • Expected income and withholding from new job

The calculator will tell you how much extra to withhold.

Typical fix:

Step 4(c): Enter extra withholding to make up for the under-withholding at the new job.

State Withholding Forms: The Often-Forgotten Step

Most states have their own W-4 equivalent.

The challenge:
State forms vary wildly.

Common state form names:

  • California: DE 4
  • New York: IT-2104

General principles that apply to most states:

1. Match your federal filing status

  • If you file Married Jointly federally, do the same for state (usually)

2. States often use allowances still

  • Even though federal eliminated allowances, many states still use them
  • More allowances = less withholding
  • Start with the number the form instructions suggest for your situation

3. Check for state-specific deductions or credits

  • Some states give extra allowances for dependents
  • Some have different standard deductions
  • Some have pension income exclusions

4. Use your state's withholding calculator if available

  • California, New York, Massachusetts, and others have online calculators

The Annual Checkup: When to Review Your Withholding

You should update your W-4 when:

Life changes:

  • Got married or divorced
  • Had a baby or adopted
  • Your child turned 17 (no longer qualifies for child tax credit)
  • Bought a house
  • Paid off your mortgage
  • Spouse started or stopped working
  • Spouse got a significant raise or pay cut

Income changes:

  • You got a raise
  • You started a side business
  • Your bonus structure changed
  • You started receiving significant investment income
  • You retired mid-year

Tax law changes:

  • Tax brackets adjusted for inflation
  • Standard deduction increased
  • Tax credits changed

Every January (at minimum):

Even without major changes, review your withholding because:

  • Tax brackets adjust for inflation annually
  • You might have gotten cost-of-living raises
  • Your deductions or credits might have changed

The mid-year check:

In June or July, do a quick calculation:

Federal tax withheld so far ÷ 2 = $5,000

Expected annual federal tax = $11,000

On track? $11,000 ÷ 2 = $5,500

You're under-withholding by $500 for half the year, so $1,000 annually.

Fix: Increase Step 4(c) by $1,000 ÷ 13 remaining paychecks = $77 per paycheck.

Common Mistakes That Cost Money

1. Not Updating When Your Spouse's Income Changes

Your spouse gets a $20,000 raise. Your household income jumped significantly, but you never updated your W-4s.

The result: Your combined withholding doesn't account for the higher tax bracket. You owe $3,000 at tax time.

The fix: Rerun the IRS calculator every time either spouse has an income change over ~$10,000.

2. Overwithholding Because "I Like the Refund"

The math:

$3,000 refund = $250/month you didn't have If you invested $250/month in an S&P 500 index fund:

  • Approximate return (for illustrative purposes): ~10% annually
  • Your $3,000 becomes $3,150+ by the time you get the refund

More realistic comparison:

That $250/month could have:

  • Paid off credit card debt at 21% APR (saved $630 in interest)
  • Gone into an emergency fund (prevented overdraft fees or payday loan)
  • Been used to max out your HSA or IRA earlier in the year

The psychological argument: "But I'd just spend it!"

Counter-argument: Set up automatic transfers to savings of that $250/month instead. You get the same forced savings effect but maintain control and earn interest.

Real-World Examples: Putting It All Together

Example 1:
Single Person, One Job, No Complications

Sarah:

  • Single, no dependents
  • One W-2 job: $75,000 salary
  • No side income
  • Takes standard deduction
  • Expects $300 in bank interest

Her W-4:

Step 1: Single Step 2: Leave blank (only one job) Step 3: Leave blank (no dependents) Step 4(a): $300 (interest income) Step 4(b): Leave blank (standard deduction) Step 4(c): Leave blank (no adjustment needed)

Result:
Withholding will be very close to her actual tax liability. Expected refund: ~$200.

Example 2:
Married Couple, Both Work, Two Kids

Mike and Jennifer:

  • Married filing jointly
  • Mike: $95,000 salary
  • Jennifer: $68,000 salary
  • Two kids, ages 8 and 12 (both under 17)
  • Standard deduction
  • $500 in dividend income

Mike's W-4 (higher earner):

Step 1: Married Filing Jointly Step 2: Check the box in 2(c) Step 3: $4,000 (two children × $2,000) Step 4(a): $500 (dividend income) Step 4(b): Leave blank Step 4(c): Leave blank initially, adjust after checking mid-year

Jennifer's W-4:

Step 1: Married Filing Jointly Step 2: Check the box in 2(c) Step 3: Leave blank (Mike claimed kids) Step 4: Leave all blank

Result:

Combined withholding should be close to actual tax. Expected refund: ~$400.

The Bottom Line

Getting your withholding right isn't about complicated math — it's about:

  1. Using the IRS Tax Withholding Estimator honestly and completely
  2. Updating your W-4 when life changes
  3. Checking mid-year to make sure you're on track
  4. Coordinating both federal and state withholding

The difference between someone who optimizes their withholding and someone who doesn't:

  • Overwithholders: Giving the government an interest-free loan annually
  • Underwithholders: Scrambling for thousands in April plus potential penalties
  • Optimized: Having access to your money, all year, and a tax bill close to zero

That's an extra $250/month in your pocket throughout the year that you can invest, save, or use. Over 30 years, investing that $250/month at 7% annual returns (illustrative) = $302,000+.

Stop giving the government an interest-free loan. Get your withholding right.

TL;DR: This Is A Lot

The goal:
Get your withholding as close to breakeven as possible so you keep access to your money all year—without surprise tax bills in April.

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1. Use the IRS Tax Withholding Estimator
The estimator accounts for:

  • Multiple jobs or dual-income households
  • Income already earned and tax already withheld
  • Tax credits, deductions, and other income

It tells you exactly what to enter on your W-4. Don’t guess.

2. Coordinate W-4s (Especially if Married)
Most withholding problems happen when both spouses work and each W-4 assumes the full standard deduction or credits.

Best practices:

  • Use the multiple-jobs checkbox when both spouses work
  • Have one spouse claim dependents, not both
  • Or rely on the IRS estimator for precise coordination


3. Adjust for Income Your Employer Doesn’t See
Employers only withhold based on your paycheck—not your full financial picture.

Consider adjustments if you have:

  • Side business or freelance income
  • Investment income (interest, dividends, capital gains)
  • Large bonuses or equity compensation

You can increase withholding or make quarterly estimated payments.

4. Aim for a Small Buffer, Not a Big Refund
A modest refund ($200–$500) provides a cushion. Large refunds usually mean you overpaid all year.

When to Review Your Withholding

Update your W-4 when:

  • You get married or divorced
  • Have a child
  • A spouse starts or stops working
  • Your income changes meaningfully

At a minimum, review every January and do a quick mid-year check.

Not sure if your withholding is optimized? A quarterly tax projection can show you exactly where you stand and what adjustments to make. Fifteenth can review your current withholding setup and help you dial it in so you're neither over-paying all year nor facing a surprise bill in April.

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